Sunday, December 15, 2013

25 TIPS To Ease Tension

stress management

1. Work on your attitude


How you react to stress is determined by how you perceive a particular event. Re-frame your response by acknowledging that the stress event is outside of you. You are the center and controller of your response.

2. Think about something else


Distract yourself to break whatever chain of thought is producing the stress.

3. Take a mental vacation


Visualize or gaze at a postcard or poster of somewhere you would like to be and feel safe.

4. Use affirmations


“I can handle this.” “Everyone makes mistakes.” “We are all human.” “Staying calm helps me solve problems.”

5. Think positively


Think about a success or past achievement.

6. Recite an anti-stress litany


“This too shall pass.” “Tomorrow is another day.”

7. Count to 10


Use the pause to breathe and relax. It will allow a more relaxed response and lower tension in muscles.

8. Look away


Focus on something at least 20 feet away to let eye muscles change tension.

9. Take several deep breaths


Stress and tension tighten muscles. Breathe by pushing out with stomach muscles to bring oxygen and energy into your body. Exhale and let go of the stress.

10. Get up and leave


If appropriate, leave the stressful situation for a little while. Go out to lunch. Walk around the block. The exercise and space gives you time to recover from the stress response.

11. Yell or cry


If the environment is private and safe, emotional release can be healing.

12. Massage your target muscles


Recognize which muscle groups you tense up when feeling stress. Massage those muscles to break the stress-tension cycle.

13. Stretch


Stretching muscles reduces the sensation of stress even when we can’t do anything about the source of the stress.

14. Press on your temples


Ancient application of acupressure using your fingertips moving in small circles over your temples relaxes muscles elsewhere in your neck.

15. Drop your jaw and roll it left and right


Notice if you clench your teeth when feeling stress. Yawning and jaw stretches release tension.

16. Stretch your chest for better breathing


Press your shoulder blades together expanding your chest as you inhale. Relax as you exhale. Repeat 4-5 times.

17. Relax all over


Use progress relaxation techniques to start with your feet and move progressively to your head (feet, legs, chest, arms, neck, and head) relaxing each major muscle group one at a time.

18. Listen to relaxation tapes


Natural sounds or music both can promote relaxation and be inspiring.

19. Compliment


Give someone a compliment or thank-you.

20. Joke


Share a joke with someone.

21. Smile


Smile at someone or even yourself.

22. Take a minute


Take a minute to gaze at the photo of a loved one on your desk, wall or in your wallet.

23. Combing


Comb your hair.

24. Drink Water


Get a drink of water.

25. Review an item from your happy file


This is a file where you put birthday cards, thank you notes, letters of appreciation, photos, etc.

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